when a wife knows what are the burdens that a husband actually carried during the Judgement Day... she will say... its is hard for a man... even not to waking up your wife n children to perform Subuh prayer.. even not to remind them to do the prayer at an early time... is a sin... which when they perform it late or not doing it at all.. you as a a husband and a father will carry the burden... when Allah asked it to your family.. they will say...
" my father didn't remind me"not just that.. when anything shubhah (was was) and not halal is in your home..even if it is not the husband doing.. it is the family members' doing... the father will carry the burden... why?? because hey didn't care... not even care to check... to observe.. or the least.. to know about it.. even worst.. when the father forget to remind the wife and daughter to cover aurat.. any single hair that fall...any parts of the aurat... the father will carry the blame.. it just came across a wifes' mind... 'i need to do something to help...' and how???
and as a mum.. i just thought.. there are a lot of things to be taught to a boy... many many things and especially addin... so then he will be able to become a good son and of course a good father later... and definitely a good person and hamba allah....
all members of the family.. play a very important role to create a great family...
play a good role to get the redha and rahmat..
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