Pedophile.. Do we have it in Malaysia?

We should teach our daughters about this. So they will know how to take care of themselves. 

What is a pedophile?

A pedophile is a person who has a sustained sexual orientation toward children, generally aged 13 or younger, Blanchard says.
Not all pedophiles are child molesters (or vice versa). "Child molesters are defined by their acts; pedophiles are defined by their desires," Blanchard says. "Some pedophiles refrain from sexually approaching any child for their entire lives." But it's not clear how common that is.

Does the medical community consider pedophilia to be a mental disorder?

Yes. The American Psychiatric Association (APA) has included pedophilia in its Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders since 1968.
In the DSM, which is updated periodically, pedophilia has been grouped with other paraphilias -- which the APA defines as "recurrent, intense sexually arousing fantasies, sexual urges, or behaviors that involve children, nonhuman subjects, or other non-consenting adults, or the suffering or humiliation of oneself or one's partner."
But the next edition of the DSM -- the DSM 5 -- may instead refer to "pedophilic disorder."
"[Pedophiles] would be diagnosed with pedophilic disorder either if their attractions toward children are causing them guilt, anxiety, alienation, or difficulty in pursuing other personal goals, or else if their urges cause them to approach children for sexual gratification in real life," Blanchard says.


Spent 90 days at home since last year school break. The first 45 days, I finished up the unfinished task and prepared for the next term and the last 45 days for the maternity leave and still have 45 more days to go. My abstinence period has ended today thus I had create a list for the things that I want to do at home and also the list of task that need to be done when I finish my leave later.It will begin tomorrow however I won't tell cause it is a secret.

My new born baby boy was borned on the 2nd January 2013 at 0118hrs. 78 minutes late from new year. It was an unforgettable moment and totally different situation from his big brother.

On the 1st day; his size was;
Weight : 2.825 kg
Height : 48cm
Abilities : Defecated during labour, thus we were discharged at 1400 hrs on 2nd January, cry and sleep

He is now 45 days old. The check up went well and he gained a lot in size. During the 34 days old (cause that is the day he went to the clinic);
His size was;
 Height : 53cm
Weight : 4.0 kg
Abilities : Respond to light and loud sounds, look at the person near him especially during BF

My first boy; he is happy and love to play with his brother. Even though he shows some attitude lately, I know that he is actually adapting to the situation that he is now a big brother.  And his mother and father are busy handling his brother rather than him. Thus, we need to be smart and deal with that situation so then he won't feel lonely. To cope with that, we spent time with him when his brother is sleeping mostly in the night.
Most important is, he knows when he can play with his mother. So every time his brother is sleeping, he will make sure I focus on him and not anything else.

Life... It is like a dream. I just don't believe what had happen to me. My sister used to say, "Macam  main main je kan?" Only Allah knows what will happen next and we only pray for the best.